You’ve probably been there: you send a connection request on LinkedIn, wait a few days, and… crickets. No acceptance. No response. Just silence.
So, what’s going on? Why are so many connection requests getting ignored?
Let’s unpack it. 👇
1. Your request is blank.
Sending a connection request without a note is like showing up at a networking event, handing over your card, and walking away without a word. It feels impersonal. People want to know why you want to connect with them.
Fix it: Always personalise. Mention where you saw them, why their work resonates, or what you’d love to learn from them. Just one or two sentences make all the difference.
2. Your profile isn’t pulling its weight.
If your profile appears outdated, half-empty, or overly salesy, chances are your request won’t be approved. People decide in seconds whether to engage with you.
Fix it: Invest time and energy in your profile. Use a clear photo, a compelling headline, and a summary that feels authentically you. Show that you’re active, credible, and worth connecting with.
3. You’re leading with the pitch.
No one wants to be sold to immediately. If your note sounds like a cold email in disguise, people will ignore it faster than you can say “connect.”
Fix it: Lead with value, not the pitch. Share curiosity, common ground, or genuine appreciation. Relationships first. Business later.
4. You haven’t built visibility.
If your name doesn’t ring a bell, your request might feel random. LinkedIn is about community. When people have seen you pop up in comments or posts, they’re more likely to accept.
Fix it: Be active. Comment thoughtfully, share insights, and show up consistently. When your request comes through, they’ll think, “Oh yes, I know them!”
